The old age by W W Ziege goes like this: ’Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude and nothing on earth can help the man with wrong mental attitude’.
Without vision and mission you are like a jet without a flight plan or maybe a brain surgeon operating with a blindfold on. Lasting self mastery and excellence will only come about when you set precise goals and have a clear vision and mission plan in place.
Clear goals are foundation of success and if you do not set clear cut goals then it would be like a ship moving through deep seas without a course. And alas these are not a commodity which can be bought!
2. Networking and building nurtured relationships
You are the centre of your own universe. Where your universe intersects or overlaps someone else’s, your lines cross that person’s universe. If you could draw a map of the entire universe, you’d have a mesh or a web. Staying in touch and focusing on action is not only important for our evolution but is also a vital need to meet the larger challenges facing us today.
When we join hands with other people and share our dreams, aspirations, concerns and dreams not only do we find inner strength in this kinship but also practical help and ideas to carry out joint initiatives effectively. Remember, together each achieves more.
This is something that has to be cultivated and is not something that can be bought overhand.
3. Values
The highest good in human beings is their own self. This is the love, awareness and bliss of our inner most divine being. Everything worthwhile in life is an expression of this divinity. All that we value is the hidden quest for this divine source: Jack Welch in his book Winning.
Everything we do is based consciously or unconsciously on our values, attitudes and or conceptions of what is good and desirable. They are our inherent notions of what ought to be. Thus values are set of behaviours: specific, nitty-gritty and so descriptive they leave little to imagination.
People must be able to use them as marching orders because they are the how of the mission, the means to the end: Winning. And if u guessed it right folks values is not something which you can buy but what is nurtured by your traditional roots.
4. Personal development
There goes an old age saying: ’A little bit of something is better than plenty of nothing’.
The challenge is to use your energy to cut through and go beyond all your fears, your weaknesses, your insecurities and doubts and bring about a change in your lives. Making things happen and anything thought of and considered useful must finally be converted into inspired action.
Aptly put by a Chinese thinker: ’Even a journey of a thousand miles begins with one logical step’ and that is development of self.
Everyone aims at self development and this is something which, again, cannot be bought. One has to build personal development as a way of life by organising the day effectively, identify transferable skills and personal competence and improve the overall quality of working.
5. Genius
It’s like tooth extraction of a cavity-filled tooth. As a dentist removes the cavity-filled tooth you must get rid of your weaknesses and focus on your strengths and bring out the genius in you by realising what is your liking and your passion.
Genius in you is built by keeping a focus and bringing about daily improvements thus striving to build a genius through sustained efforts.
6. Mentor and guide
Mentoring is a relationship between openness, freedom and confidence. It is a protected relationship in which learning and experimentation can occur, potential skills can be developed, and in which results can be measured in terms of competencies gained.
Mentoring comes in by developing a special relationship which is based on mutual trust and dependence for learning and growing to upgrade your knowledge and skills.
All this cannot be bought but developed and nurtured through constant interactions. Guides / gurus cannot be bought by money. You need to find a friend, a philosopher and guide with whom you can develop an understanding for future guidance for help in your career, your profession. You cannot force anybody to become your mentor but develop a mutual trust and understanding over time.
7. Team spirit
’See the world for yourself. Have faith in the way things are. Love the world as yourself, then you can care for all things’: Tao Te Ching.
Existence is one whole symphony of working together joyfully similar to thousands of species of plant and animals found in a rain forest. Team spirit brings about a sense of belonging and helps us realise the truth that each achieves more.
This spirit has to be developed with mutual benefits to all and incorporates a deeper understanding, a sense of commitment and compatibility by dissolving ego and individual differences. Rabindranath Tagore rightly said: ’There is no such thing as absolute isolation in existence and the only way of attaining truth is through interpenetrating our being into all our objects.’
8. Humility
The state of being humble .Getting rid of the feeling of pride, ego and being self obsessed. Let others also express themselves. Do not try to superimpose our views on others every time. One has to cultivate humility and, I bet, money cannot buy humility.
9. Developing efficiency
Follow the POLCA mantra: Planning, organising, leading, controlling and taking action. All this cannot be bought with money but it’s a discipline in one’s life which has to be incorporated in to become efficient and successful.
10. Adaptability and acceptability
Changed conditions induce an almost indefinite amount of fluctuating variability, by which the whole organisation is rendered in some degree of plastic: Charles Darwin. Hence it’s your capacity to react and adjust to new and changing situations that will help you achieve your aims. The innate nature of human adaptability can be seen in the way infants adjust physically, socially and emotionally to their new world from the time they are born.
Constant reinforcements of our adaptability to differing situations make it a habit and frame an acceptable behaviour towards the society. This is something that comes naturally and money cannot buy.